What It’s Like to Be…a London Divorce Lawyer

Negotiating cases in which neither spouse wants custody of the cat, setting clients’ expectations about what’s legally possible (versus what feels “right”), and finding hope in people’s ability to bounce back from dark times with Lucy Stewart-Gould, a divorce lawyer in London. What simple question can break open a deadlocked settlement? And what’s a “jurisdiction race”?

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About What It’s Like to Be…
In each episode of What It’s Like to Be…, bestselling author Dan Heath speaks with someone about what it’s like to walk in their (work) shoes. Behavioral Scientist serves as a distribution partner with episodes released every other week. Learn more about the podcast’s mission of “slow curiosity” here, and head here to get Dan’s reflections on how the mission is going after a year of conversations.


The “London Divorce Lawyer” episode of What It’s Like To Be… featured Lucy Stewart-Gould. It was produced and edited by Matt Purdy. Copyright © 2026 by Dan Heath. All rights reserved.